Meet real couples and singles near you. Chat privately, find the parties, and walk in knowing who's there. Discreet, verified, built for the lifestyle.
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Made for meeting
Real couples and singles near you, with a match percent and the filters that actually matter in the lifestyle.
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See someone interesting? Spark them. No awkward openers, no pressure, no spam.
Victor
🔥Flame
They spark back, it's a Flame, and a private chat opens. Interest goes both ways before a word is said.
The membership
Yearly or monthly, cancel any time. Every plan opens all of SwingTap: The Playground, Sparks and Flames, private chat, events, and lounges.
Everything SwingTap has, billed once a year.
Everything SwingTap has, billed monthly. Cancel any time.
Happening soon
Real nights from vetted hosts. Browse freely; who's going is for members.
FEATURED 
Discretion is the deal
Tap gear
A card, ring, or bracelet that opens your SwingTap profile on any modern phone. Optional, and it feels like magic.
A slim NFC card that opens your SwingTap profile with one tap on any phone. Shipped to your door.
$19.99 Get Yours
An elegant black ceramic ring with a hidden NFC chip. One tap on any phone opens your profile.
$39.97 Get Yours
A comfy NFC bracelet in seven colors. It is adjustable, so one size fits all and there is no size to choose. Tap it on any phone to open your profile, no app needed.
$29.99 Get YoursSwingTap runs your whole night: RSVPs, door check-in, group chats, games, and real numbers.
Questions, answered
A private social platform built for the swinger and lifestyle community. One discreet profile, member browsing, private chat, real events with check-in, and group lounges.
Yes. You use a screen name, your phone number is never shown to anyone, and you control who sees your photos. Private galleries need your approval, and you can browse invisibly if you prefer.
Yes. SwingTap is built for real people, not bots, catfish, or fake profiles. Members earn a verified badge through real-world event check-ins and host vouches, and you can filter for verified members only, so you know the people you meet are exactly who they say they are. Real events are part of what keeps it that way.
Two ways, and both work great. Share one account: a couple or throuple can have a single profile with everyone on it, one login, one membership. That is the simplest option and it is what many couples do. Or get your own accounts and link them: each person has their own membership, login, photos, and privacy settings, and you link up as partners so you show up together and people can see you are a pair. Up to six profiles can link. You can buy the extra memberships together at checkout, and we email each partner a link to set their own password. Either way, your relationship status is always your own choice, and you can link or unlink any time.
No. Your profile shares from one link or QR code. Tap gear is optional and makes sharing effortless with one physical tap.
The Annual Membership is $69.69 per year. The Monthly Membership is $6.99 per month. Cancel any time. Tap gear is priced individually above.