Two clubs carry most of Washington's lifestyle scene, and both sit in the Seattle area. Club Sapphire is on Interurban Avenue in Tukwila, a few minutes from SeaTac airport, and holds regular parties Wednesday through Sunday in about 10,000 square feet with a DJ, playrooms, showers and lockers. Membership is required, and a one-week membership was $30 as listed in September 2026. They ask for something sexy or themed and no sweats or ball caps.
Eros Events near Redmond is a different kind of evening, or afternoon. It is a members-only group now in its 23rd year, with a pool, and its best-known gatherings are biweekly Sunday afternoon swims that start at 1pm, with newcomers arriving an hour early for orientation. Evening parties on Fridays and Saturdays happen now and then.
Seattle also has the Center for Sex Positive Culture, a volunteer-run nonprofit since 1999 that welcomes swingers alongside kink, poly and queer communities. It is more community center than nightclub. Spokane, Tacoma and the rest of the state have no confirmed club, so couples from eastern Washington usually head to the Seattle area for a weekend.
Clubs and organizers in Washington
Club Sapphire · Tukwila
Weekly events Wednesday through Sunday in about 10,000 square feet with a DJ, playrooms, showers, lockers and towels, plus light appetizers and soft drinks. Membership is required; a one-week membership was $30 and event fees ran $20 to $130 as listed in September 2026. Their site.
Eros Events · Redmond
Members-only lifestyle group in its 23rd year, with biweekly Sunday afternoon swim events from 1pm and occasional Friday or Saturday evening parties from 8pm. Newcomers arrive early for orientation. Their site.
Center for Sex Positive Culture · Seattle
Volunteer-run nonprofit since 1999 whose events welcome swingers alongside kink, poly and queer communities. A physical legal ID is required for in-person events, and its calendar lists a board meeting on October 14, 2026. Their site.
Where it happens
- Seattle. The CSPC holds its community events in Pioneer Square, and most couples in the region orbit the city.
- Tukwila. Club Sapphire, the main on-premise club in the state, is here just south of Seattle.
- Redmond. Eros Events runs its members-only pool afternoons and evening parties from a private facility in this area.
- Spokane. We found no club here, so eastern Washington couples tend to travel to the Seattle area.
Common questions
What should we wear to Club Sapphire?
The club asks for something comfortable and sexy, lingerie or a themed costume, and no baggy sweats, dirty clothes or baseball hats.
Do we need a membership?
Yes. Club Sapphire requires one, and a one-week membership was $30 as listed in September 2026. Eros Events hosts parties only for current members.
Is there a daytime option?
Eros Events holds Sunday afternoon swim events every other week starting at 1pm.
Are there clubs in Spokane or Tacoma?
We could not confirm one. The closest options are in Tukwila and the Redmond area.
Checked against each club's own site in September 2026. Clubs change; confirm details with them before you go. More places: every state guide.
