SwingLifestyle, usually called SLS, has been part of the American lifestyle since 2001. It is where a lot of couples found their first party. People looking for an alternative tend to want the same events, with more certainty about who they will meet and an experience that feels at home on a phone.
This comparison uses facts from swinglifestyle.com, its sister site swing.com and its App Store listing, checked on September 22, 2026.
What SLS does well
- Longevity. Nearly 25 years, and a brand most lifestyle couples in the US recognize.
- The biggest calendar. Its events run through swing.com, which describes itself as the largest directory of swinger and lifestyle events in the United States, with thousands of upcoming events listed. Cruises, resort takeovers, conventions and local parties are all there.
- Groups and forums. An active side of the site for discussion, not just profiles.
- Options on price. Free signup, monthly plans from $19.99 on its App Store listing, and lifetime options.
SLS and SwingTap side by side
| SLS | SwingTap | |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free signup; paid from $19.99/month; lifetime options | A renewing plan, annual or monthly |
| Events | Very large calendar via swing.com | Nationwide listings with guest lists, a lounge per event and door check-in |
| Verification | Member certifications | Badge earned by checking in at a real event |
| Phone | iOS and Android apps (iOS rated 4.1) | Runs in the browser, built for phones |
Where SwingTap is different
Knowing who is going. A long calendar is great for finding something to do. SwingTap is built for what happens next: every event shows members who is going, how well they match you, and whether they are verified. Tap "I'm going" and a lounge opens for everyone on the list.
Verification tied to real nights. Hosts put a check-in code at the door. Scan it and you are checked in as actually there, which is how SwingTap's verified badge is earned. It is one of the hardest things in this space to fake.
Built for the phone in your hand. Clear text, simple screens, and a help bubble that answers questions in plain words. Nothing to download.
After the night. People you meet are saved to People I Met, grouped by the event, and the next day you get a short recap. It turns a good night into people you can find again.
Where SLS is the better choice
If you want the longest list of events in the country and an established forum community, SLS is ahead today. SwingTap is newer, and our event listings are growing every month. Many members use both, and your SwingTap profile can link to your SLS profile.
Common questions
Is SLS free?
SLS offers free membership at signup. Paid plans start at $19.99 a month on its App Store listing, with lifetime options also listed (September 2026).
Does SwingTap list the same events?
Many of the same parties, clubs, takeovers and cruises appear on SwingTap, each linking to the organizer's own page, plus events hosts run on SwingTap itself.
Can I link my SLS profile?
Yes. In Edit Profile under Your links, add your SLS profile and screen name so people can find you there too.
Facts checked on swinglifestyle.com, swing.com and the App Store on September 22, 2026. SwingLifestyle and SLS are trademarks of their owner; SwingTap is not affiliated with it.