Atlantic City seems like the obvious place for a New Jersey lifestyle night, but as of September 2026 neither of its lifestyle venues is operating. RolePlay Lounge on Atlantic Avenue and Saints & Sinners AC are both listed as closed. The state's scene now sits in two other places: the rural northwest and the Philadelphia suburbs.
In Hunterdon County, Karizma Social Club in Glen Gardner is the main on-premise club. It opens every Saturday night until 5 in the morning and on the first and third Fridays, runs BYOB with barkeepers and mixers, and has a DJ, pool table, darts and several play rooms. The address is shared once membership is approved, and it offers a shuttle from local hotels, which helps couples driving in from North Jersey or New York.
South Jersey leans on Philadelphia. Venus Club on Admiral Wilson Boulevard in Pennsauken sits just across the Delaware River and hosts Friday and Saturday parties with a buffet and DJ, though we could not confirm its current schedule directly. Smaller private parties such as The Swinger's Grotto in Burlington have run for decades by phone and word of mouth. North Jersey couples have Manhattan's clubs a short drive or train ride away.
Clubs and organizers in New Jersey
Karizma Social Club · Glen Gardner
Open every Saturday and the first and third Fridays, BYOB with mixers and barkeepers, DJ, pool table, darts and multiple play rooms. Dress code required; the address is released after membership approval and a hotel shuttle is offered. Their site.
Also listed in directories but not confirmed current when we checked: Venus Club, The Swinger's Grotto. Call or check their pages before you plan a trip.
Where it happens
- Hunterdon County. Karizma in Glen Gardner is the state's clearest active on-premise club.
- Camden and Burlington counties. Venus Club and The Swinger's Grotto serve South Jersey and the Philadelphia suburbs.
- Atlantic City. Both lifestyle venues have closed; nothing regular was confirmed in September 2026.
- North Jersey. Couples often cross to Manhattan clubs such as Checkmate and Club Labyrinth.
Common questions
Is there a swingers club in Atlantic City?
Not that we could confirm as of September 2026. RolePlay Lounge and Saints & Sinners AC are both listed as closed.
Is Karizma Social Club BYOB?
Yes. Karizma is BYOB and provides barkeepers and mixers.
When is Karizma open?
Every Saturday from 8 p.m. to 5 a.m. and on the first and third Friday of the month from 9 p.m. to 3 a.m., per its directory listing.
Checked against each club's own site in September 2026. Clubs change; confirm details with them before you go. More places: every state guide.
